How to Handle Loving and Dating a Married Man

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Because the woman i saw on his fb was not even his wife. I happen to have known several highly moral men who divorced their wives even though they had two or three kids. He keeps on telling lies to his wife. Now his relationship with his daughters is better than ever and he wants to repair his marriage.

I know this is wrong, I try not to think about his wife and my intentions are not to break them up, they never have been. You deserve so much more than that! Am dating a mm of 38 and a m 19yrs.

How to Handle Loving and Dating a Married Man

If you're unfortunate enough to fall in love with a married man, turn and run the other way, just a fast as your legs can carry you. To continue down the path ahead is to walk willingly onto a dark, murky composed of little more than depression, heartbreak and futility. The longer you hesitate, the deeper you'll sink, the more mud is likely to cling to you, and the harder it will be to finally escape and move on. Here are only a few of the many challenges and disadvantages you'll experience if you become entangled in a relationship taken a solemn vow to love, honor and cherish another woman. These are family times. You may think you're important to him, but face it, you're not family. They have a prior claim on his time and his loyalty. You'll always be No. How can you possibly believe his promises? You will not be able to discuss matters with them, and they certainly won't be welcoming him into their inner circle. When you're alone together, he'll often check his watch, needing to be home before his wife gets suspicious, He'll never be able to relax completely. Hence, neither will you. You'll be attending these functions alone, with no visible partner to support you or keep you company. You'll be an objct of pity and many will wonder what's wrong with you, and why you can't find a boyfriend. You are wasting valuable time when you should be laying a firm foundation for a bright future with someone you can trust. Wake up and smell the coffee. You deserve so much better than this two-timer. Stolen moments with you provide elements of thrill and danger to an otherwise humdrum existence. You'll be taking on someone else's heartaches. Seriously now, who needs it? He may not be much, but he's their dad. Are you willing to be responsible for breaking up their family? If they're old enough to remember that he left their mother because of you, it will be difficult to become an effective stepparent. Use your willpower and your common sense and walk in the opposite direction as quickly as you can. Why waste your valuable time, attention and talent on a stale, second-hand junk variety, who was hooked by someone else years ago? You deserve a much better future than he can offer you. Leave the swamp, move out into the sunshine and go after it. There was a time in that 9 yrs when we had no contact. My ex-husband was dying of cancer, and I went back to care for him until his death. After his death, the mm and I resumed our relationship. About 1 yr ago he moved out of the house, and we had been discussing marriage during that time. For a period of time I was living in another state. We continued the relationship and every couple of months we would drive, or fly to a location to meet. He then spent quite a bit of money to move me back to the town in which he lives. Within 48 hours on my return to town, he then informed me that this relationship will not work. For the past 3 months I have endured great heartbreak. His reason for this breakup is that he needs to get right with God. I no longer hear from him, nor does he return my calls. Not only was I aware of their problem, but many people in the community were aware. Now all of a sudden she is wonderful, and I am the intruder. I am realizing that I was living a rose colored existence, wasting time and opportunities. Please ladies wake up to the truth. In the end you are used and damaged goods; having to spend much time in recovery from something that has hurt you deeply. For a little then he came back! I probably should not have taken him back or even dealt with It but I did Can't control who you fall in love with. When God is ready to segregate us he will and I will gladly let him. I'm facing same situation as yours. He is being open to me from the very beginning that he's married with 2 kids. However, last month he wanted both of us not to contact each other frequently anymore. He said that if we're kept continuing to contact each other frequently, both of us will fall down into this dark hole.. I guess he just wanna tell me to leave him alone in a nicest way possible. I am very much in love with a married man. And although I occasionally feel sad and lonely, that is far outweighed by the joy his presence in my life brings. I am in the midst of a divorce myself. We both have children and understand, without the shadow of a doubt, that the welfare of the children comes first. Which means if his wife has a family outing planned, then so be it. I cannot and will not question it. It is part and parcel of being involved with someone who's tied up elsewhere. We have never made any promises to one another with the exception of this one: When the time comes that this has to end, it will undoubtedly be with tears, sorrow, anger... Love is a wonderful gift. And I would never, ever trade the love I have and receive for anything. Being a mistress can be hard. But the reality is you are a MISTRESS... Once you understand and accept that, the rest falls into place. You don't need commitment to fall in love. And you certainly don't need anyone promising you anything to fall in love. And it's good as long as you BOTH understand and acknowledge the rules by which you will be playing. Will one or both of us get hurt when this is over? But him being married has nothing to do with that. And him being married doesn't mean it HAS to end. It will end when the gods say it will. I just feel blessed to have love in my life, in all its beautiful forms. I know you posted this quite a few years back, but reading this has really helped me. I find myself in exactly the same situation now. He's actually on a family weekend right now and reading this helped remind me of my place in it all and the fact that I couldn't help but fall for him. If you don't mind me asking, are you still with the man this comment was about? Hell I am also in a situation loving a married man. I often feel so many different emotions..... I've been at this for almost 4 years now. I don't know how i've held on this long. Maybe it's all the promises I have been given, although i'm sure they aren't real. I often wish I had someone to talk to who's in my situation. Lots of times when i'm down, I just read different post to get insights on how folks feel. This keeps me moving forward and makes me feel pretty good at times. He's my first boyfriend he leave the country and we miss our communication after 9 years with no breaking ups we meet each other and as what i feel he's my man.. But in other side he's married and had a cute son. How sad i was when We talked ofcouse i get mad at him but i realized that hes not my destiny.. But what can i do as times pass by we've been together happy and contented with our presence.. I know this was wrong but he promise me and said he is willing to give up his wife and son just for me.. What will i do? Im still love him but he's a married man.. Everything is perfect except for the fact that he's a married man! SELFISH you may call it! I am seeing my ex-boyfriend High School Sweetheart we dated in high school and for 2 years after so a total of 5 years. We broke up because he cheated on me with his now wife. We didn't see each other for about a year and a half then we ran into each other and I gave him my new phone number he called the next day wanting to catch up. We went to a park and talked for hours I knew right then that I still loved him. I told myself to run right then and there but for some reason my heart wouldn't let me so I stayed. Here I am 7 months later and still seeing him. At the beginning I told myself to hold on tight to my heart but like I said before I loved him still so he already had it. My friends told me they will support me whatever I do which most of them have. One of them tells me she will support my choice, but she does not hide how much she hates him. She says he has destroyed me, that the old me isn't here anymore. She hates that he is using my weakness against me. She tells me this and I know she is right, I have lost myself somewhere in these 7 months. But every time I tell myself that this is to much for both him and I, I can't leave. So for now I am going to enjoy being with him and when it ends I know we both will be hurt, but it is an unavoidable things. Wow this has been an eye opener.... I have been seeing a married man for 8 months now, he was open and honest about his relationship and at first I was hesitant and told him I could not do this, I did not want to be part of such a sin. Well guess what I fell in love with him, he is so sweet,caring and I thought honest but after reading this it puts me to think.. Anonymous Im 19 years old and I have been in love with the same man for 4 yrs. He was my first love. I never had the courage to tell him how I felt about him. He is my bffs next door neightbor and I am usually there all the time so we each other. Last summer he got married. When I found out I was heartbroken, devastated and depressed. For years he was and still is the only person I think of every morning when I wake up untill I go to sleep. Today I saw him for te first time in years and we talked for a while. It was the best feeling in the world. Our conversation got personal and he told me how he felt about me before he was married. He said he was in love with me and I was the only person hed ever think about. I finaly told him how I felt about him too. We slept together and he went home after words to ask his wife for a divorse. It turned out their marrage wasnt working. I went home so excited and the happiest I felt my whole life... Two hours later I get a call from him telling me that his wife is pregnant and he has to be with her for the sake of his unborn child... You can imagine the devistation im feeling now. I see everyone says he was open and honest from the beginning but my married man lyed for nine months, he still hasn't fully admitted it, but I did an internet search and not only did I find he indeed was married but had a child outside of his 25 year marriage, and that he MN is ten years older than he told me he was. It is now almost two years, my heart And mind want to leave him alone, but its hard I'm alone my youngest is about to graduate and be out of the house. I have no friends I seldom see the family I have out here and I recognize he plays on my vulnerability but I. I took myself on flights of fantasy thinking I was better..... Well I have fallen for a married man, never thought I would find myself in this situation in a million years! It's only been 3 months and it has all taken me by surprise. Them days u don't get contact all sorts r going through ur head.. I wish in one sense he would not contact me any further and make it easier for me to walk away from it. I can't walk away from him, I have had 2 long term relationships of 8 years each and have always been loyal and faithful. This has turned my world upside down. No man has ever made me feel the way he does. So wish things where under different circumstances. I know it's wrong seeing a married man but i truly believe u can't help who u fall in love with. I really do not want his wife to find out cause I really do not want to hurt anyone. I would rather him leave because he wants to not just to be with me.. I don't want to end it with him cause of the way he make me feel, just the look off him, the feel of him when we r together, the chemistry blows my mind! I know I need too though, I just don't want too.. Met a really nice guy when out with friends, good job, single, good looking and sense of humour. He asked to take me out and I point blank refused. The thought of being with anyone else is unbarable! I will never meet anyone while this man is in my life and I will end up a very lonely person.. So knowing all this why does my brain not come b4 my feeling? Would like some advice from people it has worked out for as well as all the ones it hasn't... My head is totally mashed up! Thanks x Anonymous I met this MM when I was married myself. I ended my marriage, not for him, but for other reasons. I moved on my own and began to see him. I knew of his marriage and accepted it. More and more the talks of him leaving his wife... Truth is---I KNOW I DON'T BELIEVE HIM! I just can't seem to leave. Anonymous I am one of those who were in love with a married man. I knew from the very first start that he was married for 6 years but no kids at all. I was separated with 2 kids. He accepted me for who I am. We go out together until we both fall in love. He keeps on telling lies to his wife. Every morning he find ways that we will see each other and drop me in my office since we work in different company. After he drop his wife he will then call me and ask my location and I have to wait for him, he wants that before he works he sees me. In going home he always fetch me and we go home late and his wife is always calling him and he told lots of lies, I really feel guilty about it cause I know whats the truth. Sometimes the wife will go home alone coz cant wait for me. Until one day he told me that on Feb and March 2012 they will have their vacation, I was hurt, but I know I don't have the right to stop him. Because of that I broke up with him but to cut the story short we didn't break up coz I cant let him go, and he doesn't want too. I know I don't own him coz he is taken already too but we made an agreement that we will not break up no matter what happen and one day he will be with me, what a promise. I really love this guy, he is always there with me, he never left me.... I want him but can't be....... I met this guy 2 years ago, and unfortunately he's married. I love him, and I can't live without him. I don't know, but I don't feel any guilt, all I know is that we're very happy and in love. I'll leave everything to God. I found myself in love with a married man but first let me tell u the story. He was one of the Sunday School teachers, barely 20 years old. I didn't fall in love with him then. I was too young to know about love. I used to have a crush on him. Then he went to college and i didn't see him for a long time. I saw him again after five years and I guess that was the time I fell in love with him. He didn't even know me but I was so in love with him. I used to think if he knew me, he'd like me and maybe fall in love with me. Even our sun-signs matched. He's a Leo and I'm a Libra. I used to call him my Leo-Guy. And then he got married. I was so sad and jealous. Ok so I have been reading all these posts and I decided to tell about my married man. When he made the first move I turned him down.... He made it very clear that he was interested in me.. The other day we were talking and he kissed me more passionately than he ever has when he was getting ready to leave he said I love you... I don't believe for a minute that he wil ever leave his wife. So I am going to enjoy our times together and when the time comes that we breakup I know there will be sadness frustration and hurt but I will always have the memories.. At the first of the year, I moved 2 ½ hours away from my hometown. I took the months away to make a life in my new location. Me and some of the people I work with would go out and drink beer together after work. I had a sexual relationship twice with my coworker, but at the end of the day, we were just friends and there were no feelings. However my MM is his best friend. One night, about 2 months ago, me and him went to grab a beer. I went home with him. We have been together ever since, spending every night together. We talk and text all day long. Everything is perfect, until he gets his daily phone calls and he has to walk out of the room to talk to her. At the first of the year, I moved 2 ½ hours away from my hometown. I took the months away to make a life in my new location. Me and some of the people I work with would go out and drink beer together after work. I had a sexual relationship twice with my coworker, but at the end of the day, we were just friends and there were no feelings. However my MM is his best friend. One night, about 2 months ago, me and him went to grab a beer. I went home with him. We have been together ever since, spending every night together. We talk and text all day long. Everything is perfect, until he gets his daily phone calls and he has to walk out of the room to talk to her. At the first of the year, I moved 2 ½ hours away from my hometown. I took the months away to make a life in my new location. Me and some of the people I work with would go out and drink beer together after work. I had a sexual relationship twice with my coworker, but at the end of the day, we were just friends and there were no feelings. However my MM is his best friend. One night, about 2 months ago, me and him went to grab a beer. I went home with him. We have been together ever since, spending every night together. We talk and text all day long. Everything is perfect, until he gets his daily phone calls and he has to walk out of the room to talk to her. I fell in love with a married man 2yrs ago.. My heart hurts but its my fault i should have known better.... I not hear to past judgement on any one the moral of my post is to inform and educate women on married men they will love you, give you a lavish lifestyle and when the shit hit the fan that married men will turn into the enemie that you never knew you had. I'm healing now I basically put my life on whole the pain I've endure i pray that no one every have too feel it I have lost my self esteem, my dignity and most importantly I have lost a good relationship with my 19 year old son. Last year my husband asked for a divorce. We had been married 38 years. My ex is now remarried. Im a nice looking 60 year old woman. I tried dating but never met anyone that I connected with. One day I decided to look up my first boyfriend from 45 years ago and I found him. Hes happily married for 30 years and lives in another state. Since finding each other, we text everyday and have now moved to phone calls. We've lit a spark in each other and its great to feel desired again. I enjoy being the other woman in his life. I dont want to get married again so he doesnt need to leave his wife. This is my idea of a perfect relationship at my age. Its great and I still have my freedom. I am also in love with a mm. I don't know i never expected this. People believe what they want to believe And hear what they want to hear. These guys never loved you. They are getting the best of both worlds. Article above is so true, if you think you are going down that road, try your best to get out of it. But time heals all wounds. Being miserable is a choice. I am heeding your advice. I have been in a long distance relationship with a married man for 5 years now. It started as a hell of a fun time with phone sex and sex texting. Now my heart is being ripped out. His Lie: I'm a coward, I have to leave her. His Truth: I have a mortgage and insurance for 3 cars. My Lie: Seeing eachother once a year is enough for me. My Truth:Dirty mistresses are taken out of the box every year for an airing out.... IS THIS REALLY WHAT MY LIFE HAS BECOME? I am so glad I found your page because now I know I am not alone and i do have the power to reboot my life. Thanks for the sage advice. Hi my name is Amanda.... I met a man who approached me about nine months ago ,he seemed to be perfect for me and my children..... I asked him why he never told me he was taken and he said he didn't want me to judge him PR his situation before getting to know him..... I want him to be all mine but he doesn't understand how I feel knowing he goes home to her.... I know God does not condone this and its the hardest thing in the world.... I've tried to part from him but he won't go only thing left for me is to just leave state.... I wish I could turn back the hands of time to the day he first approached me because this pain I feel daily is unbelievable.... Anyways I met this nice guy online he was sweet and all so I decided to meet him in person I ask him a little about his self and he told me he have a princess which is 7 of age. I ask him why didn't he tell me and have me here thinking that we might have a future together and now he was there married cause am not a girl who dates married man. He said that he was waiting until I fall deep inlove with him cause he don't want me to leave him I was sad and depress I cried for days I was depress and feeling really down I jus can't forget about that and all the lies he told from the start..... He promise to love me forever and he said that he will leave her and marry me he said that I'm his everything and that he loves me n want to spend the rest of his life with me n not her , anyways still with him after 5 months of pain I fight through this with him because we love each other I know it's wrong to love a married man but I can't leave him I don't think I can do without him by my side. He's not like those married man he spend all his time with me because he don't love with his wife none tall I go everywhere with him even to his work place he comes to my house but I can't go to his because him love with his mom so I can't cause he's married Kmt sometimes that piss me off anyways he met my mom and my dad and half of my family he's jus the nicest guy I've ever met he shows me everyday that he love me and only me... Our love matter most and there's nothing that can stop me from loving that married man. So someone introduced me to a native medical practitioner in Africa.. BBC news took it live and you-tube every.. My Ex and I broke up 1 year and 2 months, We both love each other and it was a shock to me and it really broke my heart. I tried to call him and both of his lines were disconnected. I tried to reach him on social networks but he deleted me off of them. I could not get my love back. I do not know what to do I was miserable in life so I cried to my sister and told her my problem and said that she knew of one powerful spell caster that helped her when she could not get pregnant. I contacted him by email and he said he will help me and told me what to do and i did it, then he did a LOVE SPELL for me, 28 hours later, my boyfriend came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. Mack now and i guarantee you that he will help you.. In fact this hardwired need to impress and to WIN is so deeply embedded into the male mind...

I'm tired of waiting for him. I have absolutely no- real patience, and I was looking for a fairy tale love, but it often feels like we are dying when we don't do much together that solo excited me. Which is why I haven't made a move. I found myself angry quite often as I told Darleen that if he loved her he would divorce his wife rather than play this game with her. I wouldn't lie that this relationship puts me in a met. Know that if he really loves you, he will look for you - without the baggage and the wedding ring this time. I m fail in life. Now we are together for 4 months and we act like normal gf and bf here on board maybe because no one elements except me that he is married.